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If you are trying to create positive, erotic connections with these activities, let's reserve them for that area alone and not confuse the connection. It is a firm conviction that a dominant should never touch a submissive in anger. Punishment most often involves pain and many submissives enjoy pain at some level.

Some manipulate deliberately so they can be "punished. Punishment is meant for one reason only: To change behavior that is not pleasing to a Dominate.

It is a useful and necessary tool, and exists in some form in every close relationship we have. With it, Dominants can teach submissives how to behave and help submissives modify their behavior to better please. Of course the primary goal is never to have to punish the submissive.

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Most subs would really rather not disappoint or disobey. Most dominants would prefer that they didn't, as well. From that understanding, you can prevent a great deal of misbehavior by positively reinforcing the things you desire, rewarding the types of behaviors that you wish your submissive to repeat.

This sends the precise message: This pleases me! In this instance, the dominant must take action. As unpleasant as it may be for you to punish the ones you bdsj, it is part and parcel to being a Dominant.

What you should do, however, is to consider intent. An honest mistake should generally be treated more lightly than outright disobedience.

Always use only the degree of punishment needed to achieve the desired. In many cases, merely learning that they've displeased is all the punishment many submissives are likely to need. Often, you need only point out how to please you and your submissive will make the desired change.

The emotional pain your submissive may feel as a result of disappointing you is very often much harsher and more effective chwt anything you could reasonably come up with. Another alternative to corporal punishment is withdrawal. In this case, when faced with displeasing behavior the dominant stops the activity, points out the error, and by some means deprives the submissive of the dominant's presence.

It is critically important, however, that the length of that time should be clearly stated. Without doing so, the submissive may be left wondering if you will ever return, if you have abandoned them.

It risks, at the least, an erosion of trust and possibly worse Such physical separation can have a tremendous impact on a submissive, so use it very carefully. Physical pain doesn't encourage. It only cchat up an association between a particular behavior and a painful consequence.

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It is often true that a submissive would rather endure a physical pain rather than the emotional pain of your disapproval or withdrawal. If this is the case, use it wisely. Ultimately, what form the punishment takes is your choice to make as the dominant. For many dominants who are emotionally involved with a submissive, punishment is a difficult task.

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You may understand that it is needed, bcsm hate to cause your loved one pain other than in an erotic context. These internal conflicts can lead you to move directly into erotic stimulation from punishment in hopes of reassuring.

It is important to reassure our loved ones that we don't punish because they are "bad," but because we love them enough to correct misbehavior, however the line must be drawn and understood by both. Know, too, that the submissive will probably feel remorse for displeasing you and will want to get back on your "good side" as soon as possible.

You need to ensure a ificant time between punishment and gratification--yours or your submissive's.

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This will take tact and understanding, since most of us do not take well the refusal of our sexual advances. In addition, following punishment, the sub will likely be particularly emotionally vulnerable. One common error to avoid is intimate sexual contact immediately following physical punishment.

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No Sexual Contact It teaches submissives that if they misbehave, they will get what exactly what they want Punishment should only be used when necessary and not taken lightly.